Selfishness and generousity.

a recent fall-out with a friend has made me realise just how selfish people can be sometimes. like, how much do we expect from other people, how much do we rely on this as a basis for which to judge who is "good" and who is "bad"?

i am a generous person. i like helping people, and i like giving. i like being thoughtful, it makes me happy. but people can, and often do, take advantage.

i'm not going to stop giving as it's in my nature, but rather, stop wasting time on those who cant reciprocate.